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Bethan ([info]kumquat_of_doom) wrote in [info]unfunny_fandom,
@ 2010-12-05 02:12:00


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Cissplaining and Ass-Haberdashery and Pseudo-Intellectualism, oh my!
Over at [info]the_hms_stfu, [info]farmercuerden makes a post declaring, and I quote,'"hir" must die.'

This goes about as well as might be expected, but [info]farmercuerden continues to faff about being a twazzock and generally cisplaining (cissplaining?) up a storm.

On the plus side, at least [info]sailorlum learns from her mistakes and eventually issues an unreserved apology for doing the same thing, an example that the OP could probably benefit from.

(Full disclosure: I'm in there for one comment, before it occurred to me that the post would do better to be linked here considering that other people have got in with the Earth Logic before me.)

ETA: Aaand we have lockdown! [info]chienne has the original post capped here.

I also managed to restore a copy, and after taking a frankly embarrassing length of time to transform it into a .jpeg, I present you with a cap of the original post with all the comments up to when I commented.

ETA Harder: Houston, we have a banhammer! And a well-swung one, too, IMO.

ETA With A Vengeance: Oh, look at what happens when my internet's out. [info]sailorlum helpfully posts a nice, organised recap of all the posts that got lost between my screencap and when [info]farmercuerden froze comments. Cookies to them!

And, in a move that anyone with half a braincell could have told him not to make, [info]farmercuerden decides to pay us all a call. Cue yet MORE cissplaining, pillocking about, and a total inability to understand that the word 'cisgender' DOES NOT MEAN WHAT HE THINKS IT MEANS. Oh yes, and he deletes his own comments over here, as well - except unfortunately for him, both [info]sailorlum and I have notifs switched on and got copies. [info]sailorlum provides them here.

Incidentally, back over at [info]the_hms_stfu, we get a little more info on the comments going bye-bye.

Finally (at least, for the moment), via [info]chalts: [info]farmercuerden is apparently still playing the martyr like it's going out of fashion, AND STILL DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT 'CISGENDERED' MEANS. Cry moar, twonk.

Live Free Or ETA Hard: [info]farmercuerden is duly banninated by Sep for comment deletion. In the words of Charlie Brown, GOOD GRIEF.

Really, if it weren't for the subject matter this would be a perfect [info]fandom_wank post. It's been a while since I saw such a perfect storm of utter stupid. And now I'm going to be singing 'Just keep digging' (to the tune of Dory's 'Just keep swimming' song from Finding Nemo) all night...


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[info]sandglass
2010-12-05 04:42 am UTC (link)
Oh, Kylenne, could you be more awesome?

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[info]kumquat_of_doom
2010-12-05 04:50 am UTC (link)
[info]microclimate, too. They both displayed far more patience than I would have in their position.

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(no subject) - [info]microclimate, 2010-12-05 08:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-05 09:39 pm UTC

[info]the__ivorytower
2010-12-05 06:27 am UTC (link)
I was going to comment that I recognized them from over here.

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[info]kylenne
2010-12-05 11:04 pm UTC (link)
Aww, thanks.

Mostly I'm shocked I was able to type something coherent, since my brain went from zero to HULK SMASH.

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(no subject) - [info]microclimate, 2010-12-05 11:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]microclimate, 2010-12-05 11:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ekaterinv, 2010-12-06 04:52 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]notjo, 2010-12-07 07:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]microclimate, 2010-12-07 10:43 pm UTC

[info]kitt_in_socks
2010-12-05 06:31 am UTC (link)
Twazzock is a wonderful word, and farmercuerden was definitely being one.

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[info]kumquat_of_doom
2010-12-07 12:14 pm UTC (link)
*grins* Thanks! I'm very fond of it. The Mothership has great taste in insults - I'm also a fan of 'twonk' - and I borrow from her occasionally. ;)

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scifantasy
2010-12-05 06:34 am UTC (link)
Am I the only one objecting to the sentence on grammatical grounds? "Hir" is object form. The sentence should read "s/he must die," or "zie must die," or some other subject pronoun.

(Yeah, I know.)

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(no subject) - [info]roachspit, 2010-12-05 07:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - scifantasy, 2010-12-05 07:53 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]mmanurere, 2010-12-05 09:44 pm UTC
(no subject) - scifantasy, 2010-12-05 09:45 pm UTC

[info]rosehiptea
2010-12-05 06:39 am UTC (link)
I think it's been locked. I can't see it anymore, at least.

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(no subject) - [info]agent_hyatt, 2010-12-05 06:46 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sandglass, 2010-12-05 07:47 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]agent_hyatt, 2010-12-05 07:48 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]oxfordcomma, 2010-12-05 04:46 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]quantumreality, 2010-12-05 07:08 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]agent_hyatt, 2010-12-05 08:14 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 04:39 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 04:32 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]quantumreality, 2010-12-05 07:09 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]das_mervin, 2010-12-07 12:16 am UTC

[info]cyndra_falin
2010-12-05 08:06 am UTC (link)
When I click on both links, they take me right to the JF homepage.

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(no subject) - [info]tachikoma01, 2010-12-05 05:58 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 01:17 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 01:18 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]cyndra_falin, 2010-12-06 06:13 am UTC

[info]harrylovesron
2010-12-05 05:51 pm UTC (link)
Because disabling the comments is so totally going to make it like that never happened. GG [info]farmercuerden.

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(no subject) - [info]veleda_k, 2010-12-05 06:43 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]harrylovesron, 2010-12-05 09:05 pm UTC

[info]chienne
2010-12-05 07:10 pm UTC (link)
I screencapped the post itself, sans comments here.

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(no subject) - [info]aaron_agonistes, 2010-12-05 09:40 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]tehrin, 2010-12-06 12:01 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-07 12:14 pm UTC

[info]microclimate
2010-12-05 08:19 pm UTC (link)
I liked that he didn't understand wtf "cisgender" meant.

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(no subject) - [info]queencallipygos, 2010-12-06 04:56 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]cmdr_zoom, 2010-12-06 06:06 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]quantumreality, 2010-12-07 06:51 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]cmdr_zoom, 2010-12-08 03:16 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]alana, 2010-12-12 08:23 pm UTC

[info]coffee_mug
2010-12-05 08:33 pm UTC (link)
I really like using "they" but geez, no need to be such a douchenozzle about it. Hir/zie are fine.

I didn't get to read any of the wank, though, came in too late. Screencaps, anyone?

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(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-05 09:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]microclimate, 2010-12-05 09:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ecchaniz0r, 2010-12-05 11:56 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 01:22 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]ecchaniz0r, 2010-12-06 08:03 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-07 12:28 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]persona, 2010-12-05 10:44 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]persona, 2010-12-05 10:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 01:22 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]coffee_mug, 2010-12-06 11:53 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]jupiterpluvius, 2010-12-06 07:55 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]rganymede, 2010-12-07 06:13 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-07 12:37 pm UTC

[info]platedlizard
2010-12-05 10:32 pm UTC (link)
I prefer they/their myself, but geeze, getting butthurt about hir/zie is rather pointless.

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[info]tehrin
2010-12-06 12:10 am UTC (link)
Ye gods, I know terri_testing does have a lot of annoying qualities (such as pretentiousness and interrogating the text from the wrong perspective), but "zie" ain't one of them.

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[info]sisterelwood
2010-12-06 09:40 am UTC (link)
Oh, so this is what happened! Interesting. Yeah, I'm with the crew asking, "Why is this in a community for ranting over Harry Potter?" Also, shouldn't farmercuerden know by now that there is no escaping screencaps? Disabling comments - not so effective in covering up your wanking.

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(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-06 04:46 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-07 10:51 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-08 09:38 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-09 10:11 am UTC

[info]finchbird
2010-12-06 08:33 pm UTC (link)
The mods have spoken.

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[info]sequinedlizard
2010-12-06 08:42 pm UTC (link)
No love for my pronouns of choice :( :waves tiny flag

I use "they" if I'm just writing generally, about non-specific or hypothetical people.
I use he or she if the person has stated their identity and I remember.
I'll use "OP," or the username if I'm not sure about someone's online gender identity, and they haven't specifically stated. Then I'll use "they" for the rest of the time I'm referring to them.
I tend to use zie, se, xe, hir, ey for people who specifically identify outside gender binaries, such as myself. I also get twitchy if people acknowledged that I prefer "ey" for myself and then don't use it.

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(no subject) - [info]kylenne, 2010-12-06 11:02 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sequinedlizard, 2010-12-07 01:54 am UTC

[info]baranduyn
2010-12-06 09:28 pm UTC (link)
The STFU Mods hath spoken

http://www.journalfen.net/community/the_hms_stfu/522888.html

Baranduyn (one of them)

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(no subject) - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-07 10:47 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-07 11:56 am UTC

[info]sailorlum
2010-12-07 11:26 am UTC (link)
I'm glad someone was able to get caps of the whole post and most all the comments. It was really bothering me how they got deleted, like that. As much as I'd like to go back in time and skip the fail and go right to the learning, what happened happened and the truth should stand.

I have all the rest of the comments that got deleted saved on my computer (Everything that gets sent to my JF inbox, gets sent to my e-mail, as well). If you all would like, I can compile them for the group. There's seven of them, including comments by [info]kylenne, [info]ecchaniz0r, and the last comment by [info]farmercuerden before he locked down and deleted.

If you want me to compile them, let me know whether you'd prefer a cap of the e-mails, or a post with the e-mail contents as they are, are a post prettied up so it's easier to tell who was talking to who.

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(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-07 12:39 pm UTC
The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-07 03:57 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-07 03:59 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]farmercuerden, 2010-12-07 05:01 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]spacelogic, 2010-12-07 06:53 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-07 07:28 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]notjo, 2010-12-07 07:46 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-07 08:33 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-07 08:44 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-07 08:51 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]ecchaniz0r, 2010-12-08 07:23 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-08 07:26 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-08 09:08 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-09 06:28 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]microclimate, 2010-12-07 10:41 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]ekaterinv, 2010-12-08 12:07 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]farmercuerden, 2010-12-08 03:35 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]farmercuerden, 2010-12-08 03:36 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]farmercuerden, 2010-12-08 03:42 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]farmercuerden, 2010-12-08 03:46 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]sunhawk, 2010-12-08 06:21 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-08 07:50 am UTC
For you, and for anyone who might be curious - [info]sequinedlizard, 2010-12-08 08:21 pm UTC
Re: For you, and for anyone who might be curious - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-08 09:11 pm UTC
Re: For you, and for anyone who might be curious - [info]sandglass, 2010-12-09 02:29 am UTC
Re: For you, and for anyone who might be curious - [info]sequinedlizard, 2010-12-09 02:43 am UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-08 09:07 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]cyndra_falin, 2010-12-09 10:14 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-09 10:20 pm UTC
Re: The last comments before lockdown... - [info]ecchaniz0r, 2010-12-08 07:21 am UTC

[info]napalmnacey
2010-12-07 01:27 pm UTC (link)
This is a big whole mess of fuck-soup. There's so much I can say but I'm just going to shake my head and drink something.

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(no subject) - [info]kumquat_of_doom, 2010-12-08 10:13 pm UTC

[info]chalts
2010-12-08 04:08 am UTC (link)
farmercuerden just contacted me over MSN claiming that people said he wanted to kill the cisgendered and generally pleading ignorance despite the fact that he posted the above messages where he finally seems to get it half an hour earlier. I'm guessing fishing for sympathy.

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(no subject) - [info]sisterelwood, 2010-12-08 07:39 am UTC
Those five deleted posts... - [info]sailorlum, 2010-12-08 09:34 am UTC
MOD NOTE
[info]sepiamagpie
2010-12-08 09:50 pm UTC (link)
[info]farmercuerden, you have been deleting comments. As a result, you have been given a two week temporary ban. If we haven't re-instated you at the end of two weeks, feel free to contact us. We probably just forgot.

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[info]sailorlum
2010-12-09 06:38 am UTC (link)
*noms cookies*

Heh heh, I just got that the ETA titles are all parodies of Die Hard sequel titles. WIN! XD

And now I'm going to be singing 'Just keep digging' (to the tune of Dory's 'Just keep swimming' song from Finding Nemo) all night...

I love Dory. ...Oh, no - now the song is in my head! XD

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(no subject) - [info]cmdr_zoom, 2010-12-09 06:08 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ajatshatru, 2010-12-10 03:29 am UTC

[info]mochibuni
2010-12-10 03:38 am UTC (link)
I loved STFU when it first started, I faded out for a very long while...tried to go back there this past year and all I saw was a bajillion posts from one user about how much Harmony shippers suck. And now this.

STFU, what happened to you? :(

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