Re: The last comments before lockdown...
...I thought it was situations like large clitorises, which I knew were often cut down to make people fit gender roles, but physical situation is not equal to gender, and I did not want to come out and say that people who do *not* consider their gender ambiguous - whatever gender they feel they are - should be treated as ambiguous because the speaker feels their ambiguity. Gender is their choice. If the situation is just transgender, then that sort of qualification was completely not on.