Icon not directed at you.
Considering this: More importantly, her father was dying and I wasn't supportive. I wasn't supportive because she sent me a form e-mail. I wrote personal e-mails directly to her, but she...sent a form e-mail to me and all her other friends. After she sent me the form e-mail AND ONLY THE FORM E-MAIL, no personal message at all EVER, I just stopped e-mailing her. (And then her father died and I didn't send my condolences. Because I'd stopped e-mailing her. That makes it sound like I did it to hurt her, out of anger, but really it was just apathy.) Isn't that pathetic? If Only She Had Used The Bcc Field Instead Of The Cc Field, We Would Still Be Friends!

Seriously, if only we'd been older. I don't know what she's like now, but I'd bet if she'd been older she'd have sent the occasional, very short but still, personal message. Because you do. And I know if I were in that situation today, I'd just say, "Hey, I know you're very busy and stressed, but you need to send a *friend* more than just a form letter. Drop me the occasional personal note -- or take me off your mailing list." Even if she'd chosen the latter, it would have been a more satisfying ending, you know?" from here: http://totalreadr.livejournal.com/3601.html

I'm not surprised at all, he's just showing how truly vile he is.