Perhaps rude is the wrong word, but I mean what people complain about with the tone argument. The tone argument should never be used and a minority person's tone or rudeness should never be used against them, their argument, or the cause of equality.

People shouldn't be rude, but sometimes it's necessary, or not necessary, but healing in a way? You're definitely right, if the majority gets to be rude and oppressive, the minority should be able to scream at them.