For me, I'm used to at least some of the people out there thinking that admitting that they hate the women for getting in the way of the slash means they're being just honest enough to get anti-misogyny cookies out of it.

I mean, sure, at least they admit it, but I've seen so much misogyny in fandom that admitting misogyny isn't any less frustrating or anger-inducing than the unadmitted/unconscious misogyny.