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gusty ([info]gusty) wrote in [info]unfunnybusiness,
@ 2009-06-07 13:34:00


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GIRLS ARE ICKY!
Pedigru has some personal issues with Sims 3. He makes a post with the header 'Please stop forcing heterosexual relationships on my sims'.

His main complaints: His male Sim that he wishes to play as gay will still talk to and befriend girls, he believes that gay marriage is no longer possible in Sims 3 (which several commenters correct him on and he edits his original post), and the fact that the word 'gay' is censored on the official EA forums (this was actually fixed as a result of the thread, with a mod saying that censoring was a glitch).

Many people respond agreeing with him, and still others respond saying their own experiences in-game have been different. They've had no problems with their Sims forming gay relationships and eventually marriages.

When Pedigru posts a response, he clarifies his main complaint. It's not that his Sim is actually using romantic interactions with female Sims autonomously (he's not)... it's the fact that he's even talking to girls at all!

"My original post and concern was about the issue of no apparent relationship counter. I'm betting most every single response in this thread is from people who control their Sims' lives fully. I enjoy going to sleep at night and leave the game running with my Sims leading their own lives. When I wake up I get all excited to see what my little guys were doing while I slept.

Sadly, however, my clearly g.a.y Sims seem to start up friendships with girls at every opportunity. Not to offend a huge portion of the community playing this game but, imho, girls are icky! I don't want my g.a.y sims involved with any girls for any reason at all.

I'm going to go ahead and do an experiment then blog about it on my page. I'll control a brand spanking new Sim male and involve him exclusively with other male Sims for am 8 hour period (real life time). Then I'll go to sleep and leave the game running, letting my guy do his own thing overnight for an 8 hour period. Lets see if he has a boyfriend or a girlfriend the next day."


This ends well, as you'd imagine.

ClaudiaVanTramp: "By the way, you sound a little bit sexist and childish with that "girls are icky" line. I'm trying to be mature and not hold it against you, but to be honest I find it really annoying that you're so closed minded towards friendship in a computer game. I think all I have to say to you now is: grow up."

Pedigru: "I'll try to not hold it against you that you sound like a typical judgemental heterosexual woman. Nor will I mention the irony of your judging me for judging... oh wait... "


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[info]gusty
2009-06-07 06:06 pm UTC (link)
Unfortunately, I don't think he's a troll. This isn't actually the first time I've come across a homosexual man with this opinion of women. Typically though it's a man who was formerly bisexual and had a lot of (according to him) bad relationships with women.

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[info]the__ivorytower
2009-06-07 06:30 pm UTC (link)
*is still reading*

Oh boy, oh boy!

If you 'no offense' it means that people can't be offended!

Boy, that makes so much sense now!

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[info]gusty
2009-06-07 06:40 pm UTC (link)
Oh yes. I was quite amused by someone going 'He SAID no offense! Geeeez you're so immature!'.

It's like "I'm not racist, but..." in the sense you know that means they're about to say something you'll likely want to smack them for.

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[info]the__ivorytower
2009-06-07 06:43 pm UTC (link)
I had to stop reading, as the thread went around in painful circles, but yeah, that's more or less exactly what I thought.

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[info]gusty
2009-06-07 06:49 pm UTC (link)
Yeah I haven't gone through all the pages. It eventually just turns into 'THEY REMOVED GAY MARRIAGE?!' over and over again from people who haven't read anything beyond the OP (and even then not reading the edit where he clarifies he was mistaken about that).

Oh, and also some nice good ol' fashioned homophobia, of course.

I think it's obvious why unfunnybusiness was the only choice for this. :|

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[info]redwarrior
2009-06-07 07:15 pm UTC (link)
Umm, what?

I dated women in my day. I didn't get along with them in sexual relationships.

However, I came to the conclusion that I am merely more compatible with guys sexually, but I can still have chicks as friends, because HUMAN BEINGS ARE HUMAN BEINGS. (Still friends with my female exes.)

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[info]deadwood
2009-06-07 10:26 pm UTC (link)
That's crazy talk! Clearly we women are stupid and smell bad and dumb and gay men CAN'T be our friends 'cause then they're no longer gay or something.

Geez.

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[info]eleutheria
2009-06-08 12:05 am UTC (link)
had a lot of (according to him) bad relationships with women.

The ones I've met have this too, usually of the "why don't women want nice guys" sort.

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[info]issendai
2009-06-09 03:14 pm UTC (link)
Yyyyeah. A few gay men find that not having to rely on women for sex means they don't need them for anything! Ever! Let the male privilege roam free and wild, as it was meant to be!

Sometimes, people suck.

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Bleh
[info]telegramsam
2009-06-09 07:49 pm UTC (link)
I think it's just an extension of the same attitude found in a few heterosexual men as well, where they just hate women, flat out. Oh they like having sex with women, but women as people? Lord no!

They also tend to be the types to treat their girlfriends/wives like shit and be really super controlling and paranoid. Cos they just know that bitch is out to get them in the end!!1!! So for a gay man with this attitude, it's the same thing but since they don't even want to have sex with women, they just hate every last thing about them, the end.

Some people have serious issues, what can I say.

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[info]vzg
2009-06-14 05:35 am UTC (link)
This wank actually makes me remember the first time I realized there were people like that — going through the photo albums on the Sims site (before Sims 2) and finding an album where the Sims were all gay malea, and if a female Sim showed up she was automatically made to be hated by the playable Sims and called bitch, whore, et cetera.

It was only an album, but still. :/ I stopped reading the albums for a while after that.

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