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I's lost mah marbles! ([info]lostmahmarbles) wrote in [info]unfunnybusiness,
@ 2009-09-19 10:45:00


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Mom Killed Self, Daughter After Years of Abuse by Gang
A coroner expressed outrage Friday that police did nothing to protect a woman who killed herself and her teenage daughter after years of being tormented by a gang of local youths.

I'd avoid the comments at the bottom of the page if you don't want to RAGE! your keyboard in half.


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[info]pathology_doc
2009-09-20 10:22 am UTC (link)
To both of you:

I did not say that this woman should have had a gun, although a spray of rock salt across the legs or a couple of blanks fired in their direction might have deterred the little shits and sent them running home in terror with their pants full, never to return.

What I was saying was that legal erosion of the right to self-protection and the undue emphasis given to the rights of offenders in this day and age (especially juvenile offenders) leads eventually to the horrors portrayed in the OP - the victim is barred from retaliating and the agents of the State, who must perforce take on even more of the responsibility for community protection, have their hands tied even if they are on the spot and see it all happen.

I then went on to say (deliberately so in a separate paragraph and stating that it was on a somewhat related note) that this is IMO why pro-firearms, pro-self-defence advocates in the US are so loath to move from their entrenched position - that once they lose the right to firearm ownership in the name of self defence, they see a slippery slope developing which will lead to what we have seen in Leicestershire; and that in my mind they are absolutely justified in fearing this progression.

The only thing that would have stopped these little deadshits is for a couple of six-foot policemen to have been able to drag them home by the ear (literally), toss them into the livingroom, describe the situation to their parent(s) and say "Your little brat has one chance. You give him a damn good thrashing for what he's done right now, while I watch, or I'll take him down to the station and book him and he'll be in fucking Juvenile Prison by tomorrow morning; and if he does it again, he'll be in before he can say boo."

But no, it's all got to be softly-softly. I think we underestimate the viciousness of children, not to mention their appreciation of just how powerless the law is against them.

When I was a kid, I trusted the police implicitly and respected them enormously, because I saw them as a harsh but fair authority and one I didn't care to defy. These kids hold the police in contempt, because they know they can find advocates who will downplay their crimes while emphasising their rights.

I disagree utterly with your accusation that guns only compound the problem, but I have the feeling that I'll never be able to argue you out of your position. Most criminals are cowards - they won't bother someone they know stands a very good chance of blowing their head off, and the fact that law-abiding citizens have to keep their guns locked up in the first place if they are allowed to have them is IMO a product of anti-firearm politics based on emotion, not reason.

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[info]mary_mac
2009-09-20 12:15 pm UTC (link)
Actually, making you lock it up is to avoid all those lovely cases where kids get into the gun box, or kids wander into the bedroom and get shot, etc. Or burglars find the guns and a robbery turns into armed robbery, turns into murders, into police getting shot.

The British laws about locking up your weaponry way predate the Nanny State.

(Also, the kind of kids who do that, they're not going to be dealt with by their parents. That's how they got to be that way. The police aren't able to do much about that.)

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[info]kuromitsu
2009-09-20 12:59 pm UTC (link)
Or an owner actually shoots an unarmed burglar turning a robbery into murder...

(Also, the kind of kids who do that, they're not going to be dealt with by their parents. That's how they got to be that way. The police aren't able to do much about that.)

Exactly. Hell, many of them terrorize their own families. In some cases the police may be able to scare them (happened to a couple of kids whose parents I know: they were taken in and they spent the entire night at the station -with their parents' approval, btw- and they came out next morning with their pants full), but sometimes they're are nigh unmanageable because they don't give a damn until they're actually in juvenile prison (which, by the way, doesn't do a whole lot of good either).

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[info]mary_mac
2009-09-20 01:51 pm UTC (link)
Assuming their parents are even on the scene or you know, parenting.

Plus, don't know about Leicester, but round here the police are hilariously overstretched. If there's no weapons and no blood, they're not going to be there because they're dealing with the situation where there are weapons and blood or a multi-car pile up.

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(no subject) - [info]kuromitsu, 2009-09-20 09:57 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]mary_mac, 2009-09-20 10:21 pm UTC

[info]kuromitsu
2009-09-20 12:44 pm UTC (link)
Most criminals are cowards - they won't bother someone they know stands a very good chance of blowing their head off

However,
a) having a gun doesn't mean that the owner is actually capable of blowing someone's head off. Many people have a conscious or unconscious mental block when it comes to seriously hurting someone, let alone killing them. And most criminals know an empty threat when they hear one.
b) if the woman had access to firearms the boys would've had access to them, too. And threatening a group of young, cocky and armed delinquents is never a good idea. Not to mention that the more guns are involved, the bigger the chance that someone dies or at least gets seriously injured. And while this case ended in a horrible tragedy without guns being involved there's nothing that says it couldn't have ended in another sort of tragedy if guns were involved.

And as for the police, while I agree that the police should have more authority, in this case (and in many similar cases) the problem is that the police can't/won't intervene. As someone said above, the police wasn't doing it "softly-softly," they weren't actually doing anything, apparently they didn't even investigate the case, let alone actually going out there and dragging the harrassers away.

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tree
2009-09-20 01:59 pm UTC (link)
undue emphasis given to the rights of offenders in this day and age (especially juvenile offenders)

I have a feeling that the 'juvenile offenders' part has more to do with the strange treatment of children in the UK than its fumbling around when it comes to crime.

For all the talk of yobs and ASBOs and 'Broken Britain' and whatnot, there is this persistent idea that children are some sort of an ethereal concept to be talked about, instead of living, sentient and acting creatures that need to be addressed directly.

A law was recently passed that basically requires of every adult in some form of official contact with children, professional or not, to be vetted for it. The Daily Mash put it bluntly: the government thinks you're a paedophile unless you get a piece of paper that says you're not. This is just a recent example; there are directives upon laws upon guidelines and papers that talk about the protection of children from all and any ills, from violence to unhealthy diet.

In all these procedures however children actually remain avoided and excluded, used only as an abstract concept to give the authorities deeper access and control over the adults' lives, a means rather than a subject. No wonder that the real kids - the problematic ones, the ones in real need of attention whether as victims or as bullies - get overlooked. This kind of a mindset simply does not know what to do about them because it does not acknowledge them, not just because it's soft-soft on crime.

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[info]mary_mac
2009-09-20 08:43 pm UTC (link)
Oh lord, its horrendous. Having done a ton of voluntary watersports coaching for the local outdoors centre in previous years, you have a situation where kids of 16 volunteering to coach their peers have to get a police check done. Not to mention how you're not supposed to touch kids or be alone with them and a million other things that are utterly impossible in a sports coaching context.

And at the same time teenagers are regarded with suspiscion and criminalised for doing stuff that every teenager has done since the dawn of time. Its seriously messed up.

But the resources to get the interventions that would prevent the bad cases in time to make a difference aren't there. Its absolutely no fun dealing with those kids you can't get through to, where they know their power and they know we can't make them do anything. Most frustrating thing in the world.

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[info]harrylovesron
2009-09-20 10:28 pm UTC (link)
A law was recently passed that basically requires of every adult in some form of official contact with children, professional or not, to be vetted for it

I- WHAT?

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[info]sharps
2009-09-21 05:38 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, there's some weird shite about people who give someone else's kids a lift home from school needing to be checked before they can do so. (Heard it on Radio 4!) Never mind if you've known them for years.

Bollocks to that, sez I. (If only because if this stupid rule had been bandied about twenty years ago my family would have been in even more dire straits. Newsflash: not everyone has the time for a stupid check, not everyone has parents who live and work nearby, or who can drive, or who are fully able-bodied.)

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[info]tehrin
2009-09-20 03:55 pm UTC (link)
Riddle me this: You do realize that if she owned a gun, the ending would have probably been just the same instead she would have shot herself and her daughter. We are talking a long history of abuse and that is severely damaging to a person's psyche and can render them virtually powerless to end the cycle. Would she'd wave the gun at children, 10 year old children, instead? What if the gun misfires? Just because someone owns a gun, that doesn't mean they will be able to use it properly or have training to use it, especially under stress. Also, if the guns should not be locked up, what is to stop the children who exhibit violent behavior from also finding them? All of which would indeed compound the problem in this instance, though I agree that my argument is mostly circumstantial.

I don't know the gun laws in England. This is NOT the U.S., but the U.K. and that should be taken into account. How are anti-gun or pro-gun activists in the U.S. supposed to affect gun laws across the pond? How do you know that U.K. gun laws are the same as U.S. gun laws?

However, the only thing that should have been corrected and could have prevented this from happening was the police treatment of the woman's complaints. This is not a case of police taking this softly-softly, but a case of gross police neglect as well as neglect by the community to address the problem. Which means we have no evidence that these kids would have held the police in contempt or not. And if they did hold the police in contempt, who is to say their parents would not hold them in contempt or seriously discourage their behavior?

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[info]sheep
2009-09-20 06:24 pm UTC (link)
Apparently, we have some of the strictest gun laws in the world here, and I have no problem with that.

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[info]snarkhunter
2009-09-20 04:29 pm UTC (link)
You know what?

I AM American. A non-gun-owning American, but I grew up in a household with rifles, b/c my dad was a hunter.

And so I can say with authority that this: this is IMO why pro-firearms, pro-self-defence advocates in the US are so loath to move from their entrenched position - that once they lose the right to firearm ownership in the name of self defence, they see a slippery slope developing which will lead to what we have seen in Leicestershire; and that in my mind they are absolutely justified in fearing this progression is total bullshit.

First, almost no one is really, truly trying to take away the goddamn guns. We just want to make it a little harder for people to buy a fucking Uzi at Wal-Mart. It's disgustingly easy to buy a gun here. I could walk down the street and buy a gun, no questions asked, if I felt like it. And I mean that literally--the gun shop is about half a mile down the road, and the pawn shops all sell weapons, too. And if I didn't feel like going through the background check or waiting period? Well, I could find a gun show or a private dealer--they don't have to do the background checks.

The US has one of the highest gun-violence rates in the world, and you cannot tell me that MORE guns are going to solve this problem. The myth of guns as self-defense is just that: a myth, built on this Wild West mentality that we've never been able to get rid of. Are we going to arm the entire populace? Should we have given the mentally impaired girl a weapon to protect herself when her mother couldn't be there? Should we have armed her brother, so that he could shoot those who want to beat him up?

And the people who say that sexual assault could be prevented with guns? Sure. Never mind that most are committed by friends, family, acquaintances. I'm sure that the young girl, given a weapon as she hits puberty, so that she can ward off rapists, with be comfortable shooting her teacher, or her pastor, or her brother's friend when he tries to rape her. Yep, guns are the solution, and not having them leads to a nanny state. That's exactly right.

I hear enough about the rights of gun ownership and the 2nd amendment from within my own country. I really, really do NOT need to hear someone from outside the US, who almost certainly doesn't grasp the complexities and realities of American gun ownership, suggesting that a horrific crime in a completely different country could've been prevented or alleviated with more guns.

(And lest you assume I am anti-gun, I think people should be allowed to have hunting rifles and shotguns. In a country the size of the US, where there are still significantly underpopulated areas where people literally need guns to keep the freaking BEARS out of their yards, or people actually hunt for food to get them through the winter, I'm going to say that banning rifles is a horrible idea. But handguns and automatics? I'm just not sure why, exactly, those make us safer.)

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[info]tehrin
2009-09-20 06:10 pm UTC (link)
I have to admit, I loled at buying an Uzi at Walmart.

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[info]kijikun
2009-09-20 07:50 pm UTC (link)
I'm reminded of the line from the 'Mountie Song': "Where'd you get the tank?" "Walmart." "Oh."

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[info]puipui
2009-09-20 08:21 pm UTC (link)
*applauds*

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[info]tez
2009-09-20 08:49 pm UTC (link)
Bravo!

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[info]persona
2009-09-20 09:46 pm UTC (link)
How would you like your word? I agree with everything you said, particularly the second to last paragraph. Know what happens when we try that? We're called ethnocentric. And rightfully so.

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[info]ariadne484
2009-09-20 10:02 pm UTC (link)
*applauds* I award you Internet Fruit for your verity and clarity.

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[info]kuromitsu
2009-09-20 10:13 pm UTC (link)
I'm saving a link to this comment and will link to it every time someone starts whining about how "they're taking away our guns, we'll be left defenseless, having guns is essential to prevent crime, just look at the US!"

The myth of guns as self-defense is just that: a myth, built on this Wild West mentality that we've never been able to get rid of.

Well, an American once told me, with a completely straight face, that Americans needed to own guns in case of someone attempts to overthrow the government and establish tyranny. When I asked him if he knew that we were living in the 21st century, he got offended and started explaining how "ridiculously easy" it would be and so citizens should be always ready to defend themselves and the nation.

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[info]snarkhunter
2009-09-21 12:32 am UTC (link)
Ah, yes, I've heard that argument, too. But the one I hear more often (and maybe this is b/c I grew up out West, where this argument may be more common?) is that we need guns to protect ourselves FROM the government, and gun *registration* makes it easier for the government to know who to go for first when they inevitably become a dictatorship.

It makes sense that we as a nation would have a hearty suspicion of government--we were founded on that very idea, and founded through violent revolution, unlike many of our fellow Western nations. And I can't say that we should trust the government implictly--which is why we have elections all the time! But seriously? Sensible restrictions on the sale and purchase of deadly weapons is NOT tyranny. (Hm...I wonder if they would have the same argument about, say, handgun-sized chemical weapons? Is that covered by the 2nd Amendment?)

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(no subject) - [info]frequentmouse, 2009-09-21 08:03 pm UTC

[info]eilan
2009-09-21 07:46 am UTC (link)
Well, an American once told me, with a completely straight face, that Americans needed to own guns in case of someone attempts to overthrow the government and establish tyranny.

Actually, that is why Americans are allowed to have arms in the first place. That damn Amendment doesn't say they are allowed to have guns just because, but the Second Amendment to the United States Constitution says:

A well regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the People to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed.

I am sure there are multiple ways to read that and all that shit, but from what I see, it was at first meant so that the people could secure the country against anything from invaders to a revolution. Not go around and kill each other.

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[info]pathology_doc
2009-09-20 10:19 pm UTC (link)
Go back and read what I said about firearms not necessarily having solved this problem. Every one of you who has commented that firearms would have escalated the situation has failed to realise that I wasn't advocating their use here - I was treating it as a separate issue.

As for my opinion on the self-defence culture in the US, it's just that - my opinion. Not necessarily correct, not necessarily more valid than yours, but one I have the right to state. And I'm stating it. If I'm wrong, I stand corrected. I may be wrong here, but I have a suspicion you're exaggerating all the negatives and that you possibly have an agenda.

Maybe you should arm the entire populace - teach them from an early age about responsible firearm ownership so that there are less fucking accidents. Probably guns shouldn't be so easy to get, no; but the opposite side of the coin (as applies in the UK, thanks to a knee-jerk reaction from a nanny-state Government) is just fucking stupid.

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(no subject) - [info]harrylovesron, 2009-09-20 10:33 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]agent_hyatt, 2009-09-20 10:36 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]mary_mac, 2009-09-20 10:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]persona, 2009-09-20 10:52 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]snarkhunter, 2009-09-21 01:11 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]ivyette, 2009-09-21 03:02 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]cyndra_falin, 2009-09-21 03:45 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]tehrin, 2009-09-21 02:43 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]pathology_doc, 2009-09-23 12:04 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]tehrin, 2009-09-23 06:05 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]pathology_doc, 2009-09-23 08:03 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]agent_hyatt, 2009-09-23 07:15 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]tehrin, 2009-09-23 08:37 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]tehrin, 2009-09-23 08:40 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]veleda_k, 2009-09-21 03:22 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]chikane, 2009-09-21 05:32 am UTC
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(no subject) - [info]finchbird, 2009-09-22 11:21 pm UTC

[info]frequentmouse
2009-09-20 11:19 pm UTC (link)
Thank you for saying that; I was trying to figure out a way to say it that would not devolve into teh wankorz.

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(no subject) - [info]snarkhunter, 2009-09-21 12:33 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]frequentmouse, 2009-09-21 01:28 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sistercoyote, 2009-09-21 08:41 pm UTC

[info]cyndra_falin
2009-09-21 03:44 am UTC (link)
THANK YOU!

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[info]finchbird
2009-09-22 11:23 pm UTC (link)
Thank you so much, especially the second to last paragraph.

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