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telegramsam ([info]telegramsam) wrote in [info]unfunnybusiness,
@ 2009-10-30 12:04:00


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Entry tags:another reason to hate people, sure we don't need no feminism

Head, meet desk. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Oh here we go again:

Man goes apeshit, murders his wife


Husband jailed for killing wife
A man who killed his Vodafone executive wife after she admitted to an affair has been jailed for nine years.

Sally Sinclair, 40, was found with more than 30 stab wounds and a partially severed head at her home in Amport, Hampshire, in August 2008.

Alisdair Sinclair, 48, was cleared of murder, but convicted of manslaughter on grounds of diminished responsibility by a jury at Winchester Crown Court.

The judge said Sinclair had "exploded in a frenzy of brutality".

Judge Guy Boney QC told Sinclair, originally from Inverness in Scotland, that he had slaughtered his wife after hearing of her affair.

Calling him egotistical and self absorbed, the judge said Mrs Sinclair had done everything she could to support and help her husband through his depressive illness until she could take no more.

Carotid artery

Det Sgt Sarah Simpson, of Hampshire Constabulary, said outside court: "A successful career woman had her life tragically and prematurely cut short and her family now have to lead their lives without her.

"Nothing can ever compensate for that."

During the trial, Winchester Crown Court heard Sinclair had been a house husband for almost 10 years while his wife worked. She was head of business analysis at Vodafone when she died.


The jury heard their marriage had been strained for months over his "controlling and reclusive behaviour" which had left his wife with no bank account of her own, despite being the breadwinner.

Sinclair, formerly of Georgia Lane, Amport, had admitted he and his wife were involved in a knife fight in which she died on 16 August 2008.

He admitted killing her in the kitchen of their luxury £1m rented home but said he had been attacked and stabbed by his wife and thought he was dying.

The attack was part-witnessed by children, the court heard.

Sinclair had told the court the wounds he had inflicted on his wife were "beyond self defence" but he could not remember inflicting most of them.

Jurors had been told Sinclair attempted to cut off his wife's head, cutting through her carotid artery and her spinal cord.


I personally am getting really fucking sick of seeing stuff like this in the news. It's not even that uncommon anymore, I see at least one of these stupidass man-murders-wife/girlfriend news stories every month (often along with any children or step-children who happen to be in the way), at minimum. DEAR LOSERS: IF YOU CAN'T DEAL WITH SOME ISSUE WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, JUST GET A DIVORCE/BREAK UP AND GO AWAY. >:C



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[info]cygnia
2009-10-30 05:56 pm UTC (link)
Only nine years?!

And the cynic in me wonders if someplace like Texas would have acquitted him or gave him even less time because she had an affair

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[info]littleshebear
2009-10-30 06:00 pm UTC (link)
In English and Scots law there's a common law precedent that you can argue diminshed responsibility on the grounds of provocation if you're a man and you've just found out that your wife has been having an affair. As far as I'm aware it doesn't work the other way around.

Just another little layer of unfunny to make your day that little bit crappier.

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[info]bienegold
2009-10-30 06:48 pm UTC (link)
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(no subject) - [info]littleshebear, 2009-10-30 06:53 pm UTC
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[info]telegramsam
2009-10-30 06:50 pm UTC (link)
WHAT THE FUCK.

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[info]finchbird
2009-10-30 08:06 pm UTC (link)
I... what?

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(no subject) - [info]littleshebear, 2009-10-30 08:11 pm UTC

[info]snarkhunter
2009-10-30 06:00 pm UTC (link)
Srsly. Nine years. That's absurd.

When I was a kid, a man whose wife was friends with my parents killed that wife. He was convicted, I believe, of manslaughter. I think he served *maybe* five years?

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[info]telegramsam
2009-10-30 07:02 pm UTC (link)
The thing that really pisses me off about the nine year sentence (which he probably won't have to fully serve, if he does even half that I'll be astounded) is this: "The attack was part-witnessed by children, the court heard."

Those children are going to remember their father butchering their mother in front of their eyes for the rest of their lives. 9 years? I dearly hope this fucker doesn't have the gall to try and speak to them again when he's back out on the streets.

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(no subject) - [info]snarkhunter, 2009-10-30 07:35 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]telegramsam, 2009-10-30 08:09 pm UTC
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[info]mmanurere
2009-10-30 09:06 pm UTC (link)
IIRC that's actually longer than the average sentence here in the U.S. for men who kill their female romantic partners. It's also (again IIRC) significantly less than the average sentence for women who kill their male romantic partners...even if you only count cases of women who killed long-term abusers or were acting in self-defense.

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[info]smashingstars
2009-10-31 07:33 am UTC (link)
The guy who murdered a friend of mine in high school got 4 years, served 2. Got out, a few years later beat his girlfriend's 6-year-old daughter to death. They convicted him and then put him the county holding pen, which was a small square of fenced-in yard. He escaped, terrorized our town for a bit while the Keystone Kops couldn't find him for over 48 hours, and then FINALLY someone got the hint. Only after the escape did he get life in prison.

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(no subject) - [info]snarkhunter, 2009-10-31 03:16 pm UTC
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[info]southbitch
2009-10-30 06:13 pm UTC (link)
The jury heard their marriage had been strained for months over his "controlling and reclusive behaviour" which had left his wife with no bank account of her own, despite being the breadwinner.

Seriously? and then they gave him only 9 years?

This sh*t makes me so angry. Oh the misogyny, it burns!

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[info]littleshebear
2009-10-30 06:18 pm UTC (link)
The law on domestic violence is messed up. A man who kills his wife in a fit of rage over an affair will only be charged with manslaughter/culpable homicide because of A)provocation and B)if it happens as soon as he found out. On the other hand, if a woman is subjected to years of physical and emotional abuse, then finally does her husband in, she gets charged with murder because it was premeditated and the violence didn't coincide with the provoking act.

This is one of the main reasons I don't want to touch criminal law with a bargepole once I graduate.

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[info]tetradecimal
2009-10-30 06:44 pm UTC (link)
So in other words, if you want to kill your wife, do it right away! LOLOL!

D:

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[info]sneer
2009-10-30 07:00 pm UTC (link)
Sinclair had been a house husband for almost 10 years while his wife worked.

The jury heard their marriage had been strained for months over his "controlling and reclusive behaviour" which had left his wife with no bank account of her own, despite being the breadwinner.

Wow, he sounds like the very pinnacle of decency. *barf*

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[info]rainkatt
2009-10-30 07:47 pm UTC (link)
What burns me over the top of all this (no, I don't know why that pushed me over), is that she'd already asked for a divorce several weeks before. Just the bare facts have had me frothing all week, but when then he was only given the equivalent of a slap, I yelled at my computer. A lot. Probably scared my neighbors.

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[info]erototoxin
2009-10-31 01:02 am UTC (link)
I've heard that the time you're most likely to be killed by an abuser is when you're about to leave, or have just left.

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[info]rainkatt
2009-10-31 01:15 am UTC (link)
You're probably right; when I left my ex, who was way at the bottom of the abuse scale (had a temper, and would mostly yell), I actually took the cowardly smart way out, and left when he wasn't home, and did not discuss it with him until I was two states away. He'd been so completely against discussing the relationship, and started seeing everything I did in very black and white terms, so I essentially ran. I've never regretted it, considering the tantrum he had in public when I told him that his sucky settlement offer was sucky.

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[info]mary_mac
2009-10-31 11:09 pm UTC (link)
In the UK, statistically, yes.
Which is one of the reasons I get very wound up when people say 'why didn't she just leave'?

(I've been sitting in on Family Law this term and we're on Domestic Violence legislation. Preface to which was "keep in mind only about 15% of domestic violence is actually reported." Given recent family history, this is not a fun module.)

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[info]nymeria
2009-10-30 08:48 pm UTC (link)
Fuck you, British legal system.

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[info]snarkhunter
2009-10-30 09:31 pm UTC (link)
Heh. I...did not realize this was British. Somehow I put a 'New' in front of Hampshire.

US-centric worldview: I haz it.

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[info]nymeria
2009-10-30 09:37 pm UTC (link)
In terms of gender (and race, and almost certainly every other minority you can think of) equality, legal systems world-over fail pretty damn hard. This case is just more distressing to me because a jury of ordinary people decided to accept the plea of diminished responsibility, coming nicely on the heels of that survey that found a majority of surveyed Brits don't think it's rape if she's drunk or in revealing clothing.

Misogyny: my country has it.

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(no subject) - [info]telegramsam, 2009-10-30 10:42 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]nights_mistress, 2009-10-31 12:36 am UTC
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[info]mary_mac
2009-11-01 01:08 am UTC (link)
For what small comfort it is, it drives the majority of both the police and legal professions crazy.

Sadly, all the tools you have with domestic violence depend on the victim reporting it and being willing to let the police prosecute. Which...mostly people don't do either, and domestic violence murder is mostly treated as diminished responsibility, for which the sentencing rules are strange and unlikely.

I shall go back to typing up class notes on domestic violence and wincing now.

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[info]octopedingenue
2009-11-01 12:12 am UTC (link)
at least one of these stupidass man-murders-wife/girlfriend news stories every month

Don't worry, it's just the screwfly solution at work. Thanks ever so for continuing to be a relevant topic thirty years later, 1977 violent misogyny!

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[info]thebratqueen
2009-11-01 06:18 pm UTC (link)
The sad thing is that as I was reading that story I felt like it was written right now. Finding out that it's from 1977 is an added kick of horror.

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[info]goddessleila
2009-11-01 10:24 pm UTC (link)
I can't believe I managed to make myself finish reading that. I almost closed the window and walked away a half-dozen times, but I made it to the end. I am so creeped out right now there are not words to express.

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[info]octopedingenue
2009-11-01 11:15 pm UTC (link)
James Tiptree Jr.: Still creepy after all these years!

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