Years ago I went back with a guy I met and he sort of forced me into having sex before I could do anything about it. But as I went back to his place willingly I put it down as my fault and not his. He could have been more thoughtful about his actions, but at the end of the day if I was daft enough to go back to his place then I should not be surprised at what happens. At the end of the day, you don't go back with someone if you don't want anything to happen, so don't cry rape when it does. You have to take responsibility for what happens to you, you don't go home to tease someone or flirt with them and then say no. That is pathetic and wrong. As far as I am concerned rape only happens if you are taken by force and raped against your will, not if you go willingly with someone, even if they only say for coffee, like happened to me.

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