I'm as incised as the rest of fandom at the 'outing being used to just make those pesky minorities shut up.' And if there's something specific I can do to fix the problem, I'll do it. Like a google farming campaign to de-link coffeeandink's online name from her real name, tell me how and I'll help.

But there's this huge convoluted backstory before you even get to the outing, and I can't bring myself to blame people for not wanting to follow the two-mile-long slow train of fail.