His response...
I told the husband about the suspected OCD tendencies, and his totally serious response was "You didn't know?!"

NO I DID NOT.

I honestly thought I was just diligent, not, you know, compulsive.

Not that I am mad or anything - I guess I was kind of expecting him to shoot down the whole "somebody on the Internet tells you x and confirmation bias blah blah" because it happens, a lot (not to me but to others like self-proclaimed aspies and whatnot who just use it as an excuse to be a jackass but don't have any real problems a little manners wouldn't cure), and I wanted external reference that I wasn't just confirming normal behaviors in retrospect. (Um, which is also compulsive behavior.)

So is everyone else just going "Yeah, we thought you knew"? If so, somewhat amusing, yes?