oh, you know

Subject:	His ex-girlfriend? Probably a horse.
Time:	11:32 am.

I just logged onto friendster mostly just to figure out how the fuck to delete my account there. I had a couple of messages in my inbox there and out of curiosity, I read them. Long story short, one message from January was from a foreign dude called Ben. I click on his profile to see what country he's from and ROFLMAO.

He has pictures like this amidst his *actual* photos (the rest were Myspace-y pictures of some Asian dude, which I'm assuming is him). WTF.

Horse erotica exists? Horse lovers are multiplying? So many questions, so many reasons to never be on friendster ever AGAIN.

Comments: Add Your Own.

Subject:	Constructive criticism is not a fucking flame.
Time:	9:49 pm.

And you know, next time, fuck it, I'm not going to bother to tell anyone how I honestly feel about their shitty 20 word "poetry" pieces. But what I said still stands - *that* is not really fanfiction. You're copying phrases from the book and re-arranging them. What the fuck. Use your own words. Think a little.

Truth hurts, I guess. Why else give me the "fuck off, flamer" attitude?

Geez.

PS. Posted here because I don't go to fanficrants, my LJ didn't seem appropriate and neither did fandom_rant.

Comments: Add Your Own.

Subject:	So analytical it just may be borderline-wanky.
Time:	4:16 pm.

The Snarry Detention whatever wank got me thinking.

It's so weird how people blame f_w for shit (that they usually themselves do). Because when you think about it, it's just a friggin' website that links to other websites. If something's public, you have a right to link to it, right? It's not like it's harmful, directing people to a specific website.

Then there's the asshattery-side. If you do something stupid, are people not allowed to say that to you? In my opinion, they are. Even if my friend does something stupid, I tell them, "Dude, I love you but that was just not a wise move". But what if a stranger tells you you're doing/did something stupid, what then? You're bound to be defensive. Does this person know me, do they hate me? Do they have something against me? In the case of f_w, the answer would be "No, of course not! They're just pointing and laughing!". Good for them but that doesn't make me feel any better, does it?

I think at this point, there are several ways to react.

1) Get angry and most probably, even more stupid. From the point of view of a f_w regular, this is the more fun option. If one is a wanker, though, it's not worth it. Further actions include: trolling f_w, deleting your LJ, deleting your forum/site/fic/whatever it was that got you into trouble, writing an angry "WHY F_W sucks"-rant, defriending people very vocally etc...

2) Admit it. Say, "Okay, yeah" and move on. Stop replying to comments if they have to do with the topic. Experts recommend laughing at yourself. It doesn't undo what you did but most people will probably consider you more than just some random asshat.

3) Defend yourself. Possibly call your friends to help (if they think you did nothing wrong). Not very clever. People don't care why you did what you did. The fact that remains is that you did it, and it was wanky. Explaining childhood traumas hardly helps your case.

4) Ignore it. Also see #2. It's a website. That linked to your website. Is it worth getting mad over, wasting valuable time and thoughts on? No, it's not.

I get that it's not cool to be wanked. It can't feel great. But continuing the negative vibes with more asshattery is just not a smart thing to do.

Somehow I feel like this Page girl is trying to revenge F_W which is just silly. People who come here and read this place, even if they like Snarry aren't going to boycot F_W because an archive went down. So what's the point? People will just go, "We killed an archive? Wow, this girl is such an asshat for blaming what SHE did on US!" and move on.

As, dear wankers, so should you.

Comments: Read 9 or Add Your Own.

Subject:	hello post.
Time:	6:45 pm.

I am a very sekrit person, liek omg.

Seriously though, don't pry. I don't tell too much. Sorry, just not my style. Secretive by nature, I guess. I have an LJ somewhere. I'm not coffee_mug on LJ, that's just some person who spells "can't" with a K.

Fandoms I've been in/lurked/followed and/or written fic/read fic for include; HP, LoTR, Lotrips, multiple Final Fantasy videogames, QaF US, Friends, Firefly, Law&Order, Star Wars and (wow, get this!) The Princess Diaries (the light kiddie books, not the attrocious Disney films).

You can IM me on AIM, my sn is mugmugmugx.

Pleased to meet you all. :)

Comments: Add Your Own.

JournalFen for mint & oranges.

View:	User Info.
View:	Friends.
View:	Calendar.
View:	Memories.
You're looking at the latest 6 entries.