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daniel_johns ([info]daniel_johns) wrote,
@ 2011-09-17 12:21:00
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How do you define pegging?
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I was looking at a message board for a toy site and there was this stupid post asking men who liked pegging if we were gender-confused because of it. The answers were full of straight/bi guys saying no, but then women started jumping in and answering, and a gay man.

And now I'm confused - just not about gender.

I thought pegging was specifically a man getting fucked in the arse by a woman. But some people seem to be saying that it's anyone doing anal with toys. So... what's the definition you know?


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[info]gubler
2011-09-17 11:29 am UTC (link)
Woman on top, man on bottom, strap-on in between.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 11:31 am UTC (link)
Yeah, that's what I thought. So it's not regional.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 11:32 am UTC (link)
I agree with Matthew. Also, for the record, pegging? Is awesome. Ladies, if you haven't tried it, you don't know what you're missing! *g*

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 11:32 am UTC (link)
(Gentleman, if you haven't tried it, text me.)

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[info]gabriel_byrne
2011-09-17 11:40 am UTC (link)
Ladies and gentlemen - the Marlee Matlin Society For the Promotion of Pegging.

For the record, I agree with the answers so far - female top, male bottom.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 11:44 am UTC (link)
We could have buttons. Or just official dildos.

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[info]gabriel_byrne
2011-09-17 11:47 am UTC (link)
In society colours, I would assume?

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 11:58 am UTC (link)
Hmm, yes. Pink and something. I don't know. What goes with pink? Not purple, that's too much.

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[info]gabriel_byrne
2011-09-17 11:59 am UTC (link)
White?

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 12:09 pm UTC (link)
Very dainty. Hmm. That could be kind of fun.

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[info]gabriel_byrne
2011-09-17 12:16 pm UTC (link)
You know, I'm not sure that's a word I'd have associated with... your toys.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 02:53 pm UTC (link)
*licks*

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 11:59 am UTC (link)
Blue?

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 12:09 pm UTC (link)
Creepy associations with babies, haha.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 12:15 pm UTC (link)
Oops! Ummm....I don't know, a lot of toys seem to be purple or blue.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 02:51 pm UTC (link)
No, that's true. I'm mostly kidding, I just know as a mom that when you shop for babies, EVERYTHING is pink and blue. I obstinately did my daughter's room in yellow.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 03:10 pm UTC (link)
Ohhh. I actually noticed that when my cousin's daughter was born, but we mostly got her blue and green things, her mum insisted.

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[info]v_hazardous
2011-09-17 12:21 pm UTC (link)
You lost me at pink. *g* This is a kink club! The colours should be black and blue. ;-)

Also, pegging = penetrative anal sex with a strap-on dildo. Primarily female penetrating male, but I've heard it from some lesbians, too.

I'm curious now what they call it when the guy's dick is in a chastity device and he's fucking his female partner with a strap-on. Not my thing, but, curious!

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 12:28 pm UTC (link)
But (if we're being serious) then you get back into the idea that pegging always = rough and mean like most of the porn says.

And I... never thought of that one!

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[info]v_hazardous
2011-09-17 01:10 pm UTC (link)
Fair point, I suppose, but I don't like pink toys. They tend to look like Pepto-Bismol and that is not remotely sexy!

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 01:23 pm UTC (link)
...I'm going to be thinking that next time Im looking at toys.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 02:52 pm UTC (link)
Ew, Pepto-Bismol.

I'm intrigued by girl/girl strap-on sex, but not sure what it'd be called. Just lesbian fucking, I guess.

Black and blue, sure, but my pegging isn't really that rough. It's just a head trip. I like how guys look when they're bent over and ready for sex. It's really intriguing and not your usual thing. Kind of an interesting peek into the masculine world.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 03:13 pm UTC (link)
"Kind of an interesting peek into the masculine world."

I'm curious. I know I don't really match up to all the usual stuff anyway, but pegging is something I've been doing almost as long as I've been having sex, I got into it pretty early on. So it kind of is the usual thing - for me. So I'm interested what all that seems like from the outside, or from the other side.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 03:25 pm UTC (link)
I guess what I mean is, most girls don't have the perspective of seeing a man bent over, waiting to be taken up the ass. Or hearing the sounds he makes when doing that, or feeling how he moves. It's almost like I somehow got invited to a gay porn set without asking. The usual female perspective is different, even if the man's the more submissive one, I think.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 03:37 pm UTC (link)
"It's almost like I somehow got invited to a gay porn set without asking."

...I have never heard it put like that!

I see what you mean though, that makes sense.

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 03:42 pm UTC (link)
Also? It can be really cool to see how a masculine man reacts to getting fucked. I'm usually pretty traditional, but... that can be hot.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 03:44 pm UTC (link)
See, that one I've definitely never encountered because that just isn't me. So now I'm curious if there's a difference, if some women want to fuck a guy because they want to fuck, or if it's about it fucking a man

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[info]est_matlin
2011-09-17 03:49 pm UTC (link)
Good question. I think there are lots of reasons. I got into it because I heard about the "Bend Over Boyfriend" thing, and I bought a kit, and it seemed cool like "hey, awesome, fucking your boyfriend, that's new and different!" But I'm mostly attracted to men who have some kind of masculine features/qualities, whether that's being big and muscular or having facial hair or a swagger or whatever. There are different ways to be masculine but I like manly men and girly girls for the most part.

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[info]est_rihanna
2011-09-17 12:16 pm UTC (link)
Pegging = Me in charge, Him taking it.

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[info]daniel_johns
2011-09-17 12:17 pm UTC (link)
So does it have to be in charge too - domming?

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[info]est_rihanna
2011-09-17 12:17 pm UTC (link)
It does if I do it.

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[info]est_dushku
2011-09-17 12:19 pm UTC (link)
Word, girl. Word.

Hi, Daniel. I obviously agree with Rihanna :-)

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[info]est_rihanna
2011-09-17 12:29 pm UTC (link)
Hey, didn't we have a plan where I fucked your ass? I'm back in LA now, call me!

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[info]est_dushku
2011-09-17 02:53 pm UTC (link)
You're in LA? Fuck, girl. Consider yourself called. Looking for my phone...

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[info]est_rihanna
2011-09-17 03:27 pm UTC (link)
I'll be waiting.







(Panties on or off?)

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[info]est_dushku
2011-09-17 03:28 pm UTC (link)
Panties are overrated. Calling now.

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[info]est_nelson
2011-09-17 02:55 pm UTC (link)
I like your/Eliza's definition, too.

I'm getting married next weekend, do you think I could convince my newlywed wife to get on board this train as a wedding present? :-D

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[info]est_thandie
2011-09-17 03:03 pm UTC (link)
You provide the toy. I'll read the literature.

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[info]est_nelson
2011-09-17 03:24 pm UTC (link)
Oh my God my life is awesome.

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