QotD
"On the subject of the 'weird and entertaining' vs. 'who we
are' debate, I long ago decided that we would all be better off
coming to terms with the fact that when it comes to all things
erotic, who we are is pretty much weird and entertaining.
Pretending you are normal is a huge piece of baggage that you
really don't need to carry, and is a huge burden to live with just
for the small consolation of not being mocked.
[...]
"So my theory, as flawed as it may be, is that a large
number of sexual relationships consist of a pair of people each
trying to hide from the other what a perv they are, out of a
(possibly justified) fear of judgment. A tragedy on a massive
scale, I weep for the non-pervs."
-- idiopath,
2009-09-06