M!Davey: Well, if it were me and I were new to domming, I think I'd be constantly thinking of what to do next and trying to maintain my attitude. Which would make you intense, all those gears spinning in your head. But, if the person you're with knows that you're new and is really just happy to help out, that might relieve some of the pressure? And, really, if all else goes tits up a good fuck's not to be sneezed at!