Oh, Hell
You know, some days I think I should have been a whole lot more careful when I set up my LJ friends list; having existing long-standing interpersonal conflicts of which I knew nothing when I friended people is bad enough, but seeing the beginnings of what could be a really lurid piece of wankery starting in locked posts is... pretty much like belonging to a large and contentious extended family, which, you know: have any, don't need some.