Excusing himself Sebastian pats his friend on the back and moves down the bar, greeting people. He leans on the bar and gets the tender's attention, ordering a mineral water. As he turns he bumps a man sitting on a stool. "Oh, pardon, I apologize," he says with a huge smile.

Matt nearly fell off the stool but catches himself on the counter. He laughs softly and nodded, "It's alright, no damage done." He smiles back, sipping his drink.

"I'm glad. I am usually much more careful," he holds out his hand. "Sebastian."

Matt chuckles. "We're in a room packed full of people, I think we're all more careful normally." He shakes Sebastian's hand, "Matt."

"Very nice to meet you Matt," Sebastian says, admiring the man's grip.

While Sebastian might have been admiring Matt's grip, Matt was admiring Sebastian. Since the other man was standing he had a clear very and wasn't trying very hard to be subtle about it. "Very nice to meet you too Sebastian."

Reaching for the mineral water, Sebastian thanks the bar tender and takes a sip. "Are you waiting for someone? Should I leave?"

Matt laughs softly and shakes his head. "I'm not waiting for anyone, no. And you can leave if you want but by no means do you have to." I'd like you to stay.. He wasn't ever going to say that out loud though. At least not unless he was on his knees. His mind started to wander at being on his knees for the other man, in public and he realized that he didn't even know if he was a Dom, though the likely hood was high and he didn't know if he was taken and he should really stop thinking about these things now.

Sebastian smiles, dipping his head. "Thank you." He glances to the side and lifts his leg, settling on a stool. "You aren't waiting for anyone, are you just having a drink, or taking in the sights?"

Matt grins and shrugs. "Both I guess. A former band mate of mine that just recently found out I'm a member, though I've been one longer than I've known him, insisted I come to at least a couple of these things in case someone caught my eye. Or in reality, I caught someone’s eye. And the view really isn't bad either."

"Ahh, you are a submissive, hmm?"

He chuckles and gives Sebastian a half smile. "Only for the right person who can actually Dom me. I Dom as a general rule because I have yet to find someone who actually wants to Dom me and not just hold me down while having sex. Sex is only a part of it, a great part I'll admit, but only a part and I want someone who will give me all of it, not just a scene that ends in sex and then it goes back to normal."

Nodding Sebastian smiles and takes a sip of his drink. "I work here at Citadel. I am a Dominant."

Matt shivers at Sebastian's tone and the conformation of what he had already guessed before nodding and taking a sip of his own drink. "So you know what I mean by a constant domination versus a random scene."

"Yes, but are you prepared for 24/7 submission?" Sebastian asks, tilting his head.

"Yes. I've been waiting for it for years. I want to live that way, be in someone else's power at all times." Matt's eyes are hopeful but guarded, just in case nothing comes out of this conversation. He doesn't want to set himself up.

"What's the longest you've been in a total power exchange situation? Living that way?"

"Nearly a year? Two? But that was a long time ago. Within the past couple years? A month. It's more they no longer know what to do with me, rather than me not being able to handle giving total control to someone else."

Sebastian nods. "Tell me your perfect Dom. Describe him."

Matt raises an eyebrow but answers. "He has to care about me, be willing to show me off to whoever is around and not just when we're alone. Spontaneity. No matter where we are, if something pops into his mind, he'll do it, or have me do it and not wait to have a perfect plan. Willing to own me in every way he can think of, marking physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever. Smart enough to know what he has in a person willing to give up everything for him." He smiles softly, staring into glass. "Feeding me. To me, sitting at someone’s feet, knowing that they will feed me entire meals and not just a few snacks, is probably more intimate and sexy to me than anything else someone could do."

"Do you have anyone you submit to regularly?" Sebastian asks. "Even if not full time."

"No. I haven't subbed in over 6 months."

Have you ever considered hiring a Citadel Dom?"

Matt sighs. "It....it tends to be hard for me to take control of myself again. Since I want to someone else's so bad I tend not to resurface for a couple of days."

"Is not a very good Dom that can’t bring you up again," Sebastian says and smiles.

"You saying you can bring me back up? Because I'll tell you now that if you wanted to keep me forever, I would go to my knees now."

Sebastian laughs, delighted at the boy's candor. "Would you like to try for an evening to start?"

Matt grins, loving when his honesty gets a reaction out of people. "That sounds just fine to me."

"Call tomorrow. I am open for the next day or so." He stands. "Matt, it was very nice to have met you."

Matt stands as well and nods. "I will. It was very nice to meet you too, Sebastian."