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01:43 pm
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HUGS journalfen
Don't ever scare me like that again! You're grounded young lady! Now come her and let me hug you again.
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03:38 pm
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Um wot? It was authenticated yesterday.
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04:41 pm
[Link] | Things that are not plagiarism:
* Fan fiction
* puppies
* repeating a line in a casual chat that you heard *somewhere* without proper attribution
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04:18 pm
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Pay the cam whore already
Since somethingorotherthatiwillnotlinktoormentionbyname was pointed out to me 2 days ago I have been trying to delete a couple of ill conceived icons I made from pictures of myself. For clarity let me explain this much: someone somewhere decided to rate the attractiveness of various people in fandom. After this post I'm taking them down here as well, with the exception of the one used in this post, in some barn/horses-escaped-already illogic.
These icons were made a few years ago. At the time I made a whole slew for various people, adding bunny ears and tarty make-up with my Uber craptastic photoshop skillz. So I made a few of myself as well. I cropped/tinted them fairly heavily thinking that unless you knew me fairly well IRL they wouldn’t provide enough clues to recognize me, but that I still had a "me" icon. I had some pretention that I wasn't hiding behind an avatar or something equally idiotic. Still, I thought of them as icons I would use locked among friends, and not as fodder for some anonymous internet rating thing.
One of the things I enjoy about fandom is that it is a female space. There are no rules other than the ones we set, and I love the over the top SRYSBIDNIS of it all. The amount of adorably pretentious meta about “revolutionizing” sexual role/identity/gender by reading and writing boysex I’ve read over the years would fill the back of a lesbian’s pick up truck. But what struck me about this thing I will not mention was how mundane, how stereotypical and how unrevolutionary it was. There were no men in that thread, just women, given props for being fuckable or being disparaged for not fitting into some skinny mold.
Posting pictures of woman and deciding relative value as a sexual commodity is not cutting edge or enlightened or feminist or progressive. Its perpetuating the very attitudes that we as women are confronted with every. single. day. and as women, maybe we should find better uses for our time than kicking ourselves down. Here of all places hotness of lack there of should have zero bearing on anything. Women complain that they’re treated like meat in the outside word, and yet what do we do in our own space? It’s so ridiculous and pathetic I really have nothing more to say about it.
Scratch that, I have one more thing to say. I have met Anatsuno in person and she is beautiful.
EDIT *eyeroll*
Frankly BJR made her level of physical fitness the issue when she said that *she* could outwalk a hurricane. If you are unable to see the difference between randomly posting peoples pictures online as Hot/Not and going for the jugular of someone's argument by pointing out they could not possibly follow their own advice - then I have some nice oceanfront property in Arizona for sale, cheap.
Current Mood: fuckable
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06:05 am
[Link] | Jesus what a fucktard.
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09:58 pm
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X posted to LJ
Yesterday Kay and I went to Mexico. Normally when that phrase is uttered by Southern California blonds it’s accompanied by a “WHOOO HOOO MEX EEEE COOO”. As both Kay and I are blond, and So Cal by residence if not birth, nature, or nationality: WHOOO HOOO MEX EEEE COOO.
( Ahem. )
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10:40 pm
[Link] | Ouchy.
L has made noises about booking us on one of those all-inclusive spa trips where they wrap you in seaweed, feed you apple slices and massage your feet for eleven days non-stop. Sounds like heaven, the only rub (after toes of course) is that he has to get his house rented first. Anyone on my flist always wanted to live in Palm Springs and pursue old age pensioners and golf? Join a Rascal Scooter derby?
I also received a friends / family discount card to Hot Topic from a couple I interviewed for dog adoption. Why, I do not know, I think it was sort of an instinctual gratitude response: OMG you think we're good dog owners?! Want a coke? A Beer? Discounts at my wife's company? Hot Topic is so not my thing, but hey, no judgments. If anyone wants it give a holler and I'll drop it in the mail. Its good Dec 1 - 4th, 20% off anything including sale & clearance items.
The second house I visited today the Yeager MONSTER decided he needed to establish HIS presence with AUTHORITY and lifted his leg and peed on the girl's sofa cushions. Fortunately it was a tatty apartment filled with dogs (three plus one foster), but still, ouch. How in the hell do you complete an interview after that?! After apologizing profusely, washing said cushions and tying Yeags to my leg so he couldn't move, I then did three pages on why she thinks she'd be a good dog owner. With a straight face. Though a sane person might have asked since apparently allowing your pooch to piss on furniture doesn't disqualify you, what does?!
As always, anyone in LA who can have dogs, consider being a foster (Especially around the Holidays! So many fosters go away in the holidays and we've a shortage of homes) home - this is an amazing organization. Email me anytime for more info.
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05:17 pm
[Link] | *looks around*
I think we’ve had a nice spring cleaning here, but please, I’d rather people who are hugely offended by whatever version of what I said that was presented them – to please go elsewhere. It’s not my wish to offend you, but I won’t parse my opinion to save your feelings either.
I also have no doubts that my locked post on jennandiaca’s journal has been shared far and wide. I do know her flist has several people on it who would find the temptation irresistible. So I think I can safely proceed with the assumption that most people interested in this post will have already have seen the background material.
( shorter than the originals because jeez, LIFE )
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12:58 pm
[Link] | Alright this is really weird. Marlo wrote a comment in my journal y'day. I have been trying since then to reply to her, but the comments keep getting eaten by JF. I can reply to the other comments - just not hers. Today I was able to successfully post "testing" - but when I entered my response to her comment - GONE. So finally, I go to her journal and tell her what's up, and my comment got eaten there too!
So weird.
Could people please comment so I can test it here? Especially Marlo - although if the problem continues it is clearly a sign from the JF Gods and I must sacrifice you in their heathen rituals, k?
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09:47 pm
[Link] | Well! I'm beat, exhausted, worn thinner than a miser’s penny or however you want to phrase it. Having put in a few weeks in that soulless valley-hell called Calabasas, and then another couple of days talking to legal aid, the EDD and the assorted offices I was shuffled to during a contract dispute I mentioned in my last post, I decided I needed to treat myself a bit.
( Dog picture! Dog-in-hat cuteness! Hurrah! )
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04:08 pm
[Link] | Poll #88 Fandom wank lives!
Open to: All, results viewable to: AllI joined fandom wank for I think that the mods of Fandom wank: Fandom Wank is The fallout of LoveGate has been
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12:06 pm
[Link] | But so other than that, how was the play?
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09:05 pm
[Link] | *eyeroll* not to be a total bitch but at this point I want to tell this girl to write her own fucking story.
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03:03 am
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BWAHAHAHAHAHA
EXPOSED: For your information, the sabotaging and looting of this web site is definitely discouraged. I stand by this popular Internet decorum - Among webmasters, there exists a prevailing courtesy against the "looting" of a legitimate web site for photos and information to be used on satellite web sites. Though this cannot be enforced, we do proceed in good faith relying on integrity, ethical behavior and respect for one another's work. I really hate to stamp all these photos, but we all know there's always a few rotten eggs in every basket. It's shocking to realize what a so-called fan can do to desecrate and violate the dignity of their favorite actor(s) by their sick fantasies. Click here for a sample but be forewarned that it's very graphic. The gal who did this composite actually wrote me and offered to make up some pics of Marton for the Archives. Pathetic, eh? Seems they prefer Vin Diesel as a partner for Marton. And just for the record, the Archives has absolutely NO affiliation with these undesirable CULT FANDOMS (yes, strange but true) present among forums, journals, diaries, guestbooks, message boards, picture shrines, and pornographic fanfiction, photos or drawings, that seek to denigrate and vilify Mr. Csokas's good name and character. This should remind you that there's a very dangerous element in today's Internet culture. It's called ANONYMITY. It allows a person to dabble in whatever evil behavior they want because consequences don't exist when nobody knows them.
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12:39 pm
[Link] | I can log into my account AND it's Jeff's B'day! Coincidence?! I think not! Thank you Jeff...
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08:05 pm
[Link] | BWAHAHAHA <333333
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10:43 pm
[Link] | Apparently not only am I engaging in sock puppetry here on JF and GJ, but I'm hiring an actress to play said puppet in REAL LIFE to fool people who have met us at the same time in meat space. I RULE!
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11:44 am
[Link] | Six to eight black men by David Sedaris for Smo & Bubo
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09:21 pm
[Link] | AFK for a week – I’m in Boston. Alas, the sox are on the road the *entire* time I’m there, so no home games, dammit. I’ll be checking my email – so if there was anyone who wanted to meet up & get some spiked hot coco drop a line to oulangi at gmail.com. I’m pretty sure I have Friday night free -
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03:48 pm
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Look out for falling Anvils Wyle E. Coyote
How is it possible for so much stupid to survive natural selection, BT Barnham and those tricksy childproof caps?! Saying "I support our troops" is not some stunningly brave stand you're taking in defiance of the status quo. It is the status quo and "Our troops" don't need you to defend them against the straw men liberal myths created to obfuscate the real discussion.
Most of us paid our taxes about two weeks ago. Normally mine are done in February, but I waited until the last minute this year. I always get money back so they aren’t a source of dread and fear for me. But maybe it’s because this is the first war I’ve lived in America during, but this year I couldn’t get the connections between war and taxes out of my head.
( perhaps we forgot where the weapons that took two Black Hawks down in Somalia were made? )
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